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Practical Realism

True realism is a willingness to reveal and accept the truth.

Scientific studies, and my own bitter experiences, have shown me that one of the character traits necessary for a man / person to be mentally, emotionally, and spiritually strong, stable, and resilient is Realism.

Being too pessimistic is depressing, being too optimistic means that you are easily disappointed and crushed, and being too idealistic is to search for unrealistic perfection.  Being realistic means that you accept the reality of the world as it is, rather than as you imagine it to be.

The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects the wind to change; the realist adjusts the sails.  ~  William Arthur Ward.

It seems that being realistic tends to mean that you’re also deep, grounded, mindful, compassionate, able to deal with adversity, are not easily disappointed, and recover quickly from whatever shit the world throws your way.

To be realistic is to be self-aware and be fully cognisant of your own wants, needs, desires, and dreams.  Being fully self-aware means that you do not easily fall prey to self-deceit ~ you don’t much lie to yourself, nor to others.

Realistic people also have good situational awareness, they are grounded in the truth of any given situation, seeing things for what they actually are, rather than they would wish them to be.  They have a solid sense of time and place.  They read people easily, and they are not reliant on a specific other person for their happiness.  Most people don’t have your happiness at the top of their agenda.

It is a healthy approach not to expect persons to turn out precisely how you would have wished.  ~  Criss Jami

There are 3.2 billion women in the world, so why should a realistic guy tie their happiness to just one particular uncaring and unavailable woman ~ no matter what.

One key feature of a realistic person is that they will always have some sort of written plan / plans in place to achieve their wants, needs, desires, and dreams.  Realists know that unless they do something then nothing happens.  To live life you first have to show up.  Realists make the very most of any opportunity that comes their way.  Realists take action to make things happen, they do not wait for things to happen to them.  Realists tend to devote enough time and effort to whatever task lies in front of them.

Give me six hours to chop down a tree and I will spend the first four sharpening the axe.  ~  Abraham Lincoln.

A realist will also have more free will than any other type of person.  This is because they are prepared to say ‘No’.  Every time you blindly agree with other people means that you have taken away your own free will.

Realists have a particular type of personality ~ they are physical, sceptical, jealous of their own time and space, independent, practical, clear-headed, good in an emergency, objective, non-judgmental, taciturn, and easy going.

But you don’t have to possess all of those character traits to be a realist ~ perhaps they are attributes we should aspire to.

Some say that a realist believes that some things are worth fighting for.  And, that a realist will have a flexible plan for winning their battles.  All I know is that to be a realist means showing up for the fight ~ it means showing up for Life.

Practical Realism 1.01 ~ First Know Yourself.

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

 

remember you’re supposed to be draining the swamp, not fighting with the alligators

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Money Advice

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Money ~ we all have the same problems.  How to get money, how to get more money, and what do we do with it when we’ve got some money?  Trust me on this one ~ MONEY IS NOT WHAT YOU WANT.

My best guess is that most of the people who read my blog don’t have 30 years in the money trade, or have a Masters in Finance, and another in Banking, along with a shed-load of other qualifications, so we’ll start working on 1.01 Money.  (If you are a money expert, please feel free to comment, and disagree with whatever I say, but you better be damn right or I will make you look stupid.)

Money by itself is worthless.  Money only has value by the nature of the things you can do with it.  And mostly you can do 3 things with money.

  1. Money as a medium of exchange.  Money is an intermediate in the exchange of goods or services.  You go to work for money, and then you swap the money for the stuff you actually want and need.  You don’t want the money, you want what the money can get for you.
  2. Money as a measure of value.  The amount of money you have determines what you can get for your money.  If you have a lot of $ or £ or whatever, you can get a lot of stuff.  We know how much stuff we can get because everything is conveniently priced in money.  The value of your time is also measured in money.  (there is a price for everthing, up to and including sex)
  3. Money as a store of value.  Instead of buying more and more stuff you don’t need right now, you just keep money in expectation that you can buy the stuff you need at sometime in the in future.

Money is a piss poor very bad store of value, especially right now.  Just how bad depends on how you warehouse your money.  The worst store of value is lending money to a friend, at 0% interest, on the expectation that you will get it back.  Next worst is actual cash, then various types of bank accounts, and then managed funds and so forth…

ALL Money Loses Value Over Time.  Thinking that your money will be worth just as much, or more, in the future is the biggest confidence trick that Governments and the Finance Industry have ever pulled.  However you keep your money, from cash to in your pension fund / 401(k), the amount of stuff you could have bought with the money you have put in, over time, will be a hell of a lot more than the stuff you can actually buy when you eventually come to take it out.

Why Store Value In Money?  So, why bother with a pension / 401(k) / managed fund?  Why not just buy stuff right now, and keep it for when you need it?  There are a couple of reasons:

  • Security.  Unless your money is in a very dodgy bank, the chances are it will still be there when you need it to exchange for stuff.  You can’t really say the same for anything much else, including the value of your home.  (Insurance is another topic, for a future date.)
  • Liquidity.  You need some money that’s easily got at.  So, what if everything you own, every last penny save for the few dollars in your purse, is invested in your home?  The snag is, what if you need money next Monday?  Money is very liquid, while all other assets have lower degrees of liquidity.  In general terms, the less liquid your assets, the more likely they are to increase in value over time.

So what does that mean to the poor working stiff?

  1. Don’t have a lot of cash on hand, or a lot of money in the bank.
  2. Have some cash, some assets you can confidently sell in a few days ~ without having to have a fire sale.  Also have some long-term secure assets, and here, property has traditionally been the best long-term way to hold your wealth.
  3. Do not ever pay for financial advice.  (up to and including from me.)

Please also read my post Money.  Feel free to comment or ask questions.

Next Monday’s post will be about some ways the average working stiff can make their money really work for them ~ instead of the other way around.

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Cincinnati Kidjack collier

email;  jackcollier7@talktalk.net

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true confidence

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alpha male severity

honourable masculinity

honesty veracity sincerity

acceptance credence reliance

poise bravery courage fortitude

perceptive intelligence brilliance

perception  recognition cognisance

self-control  self-reliance confidence

acuity intuition sensitivity percipience

knowledge judgement maturity experience

genius wisdom intellect trenchant intelligence

compassion consideration kindness benevolence

dignity empathy equanimity tranquility balance

nerve skill success accomplishment self-assurance

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Alternative Living # 6 ~ Space

Woman-taking-off-weddingWhen I decided was forced to downsize my life, I also needed to downsize the space I was trying to exist living in.  I had to reduce my footprint.  I needed money for more interesting things than where I spent the night.  Only sad people are freeloading on sofas.

How much space do you want?  How much space do you need.? I know a few single people living in 3 bedroom homes, (of a couple of thousand square feet), where one, (or more), of the bedrooms is just a place to store junk.  (That’s in addition to the garage, which for most women is also a place to store junk.)

The biggest 5 bedroom home I ever owned was just less than 4,000 square feet, and that’s a lot of unused space when I mostly lived in aeroplanes and hotels.  You know what?  I never felt comfortable in that place. The garret is a tenth of the size of that baby mansion, and I am extremely comfortable and at home here.

Remember, if you want to change the way you live, then one of the things you want is a lot of spare cash to waste on interesting things, and square footage costs money.  By the time you add the mortgage, taxes, power, decorating, furnishing, paying for a cleaner…  square footage costs a lot of money.

pix-Austin_Healy_Sprite_1962The smallest place I have ever lived, for any length of time, was an Austin Healey Sprite sports car ~ and I cannot recommend living in your car, unless the other alternative is living on the street, (which I have also tried).  I lived in an hotel for quite a while, and that room, (including bathroom), was about 70 square feet.  (Trust me, I’m a draughtsman, I can do square footage by eye and memory.)  Add in a kitchen area and I could have lived for 3 months in a home of 100 square feet.  If you can live in a place for 3 months you can live in it forever.

Come to think of it, when I first bought the land for a trailer park, I lived in a touring caravan, (travel trailer), for several months, which was most likely about 72 square feet.

168Therefore, I contend that a single person can make a perfectly reasonable home in 100 square feet, or maybe a little more, say 168 sq ft.  The trick is to use the rest of the world as part of your home.  Do not entertain, do not do your laundry, do not necessarily shower…, in your home.  The outside world is a big place, use it.

The question is ~ are you a true Renaissance Man, do you want to spend all your salary on where you live, or do you want a life?

I have a guideline rule, rule #2 nobody is allowed into the garret.  All other people ever do is use up your space.  That applies doubly to women.  All women need a lot of square footage ~ women carry around a lot of clothes, shoes, personal crap, mess, stuff, junk they’ve bought at thrift stores, more stuff, more junk…

Be a man, learn some trades, build your own place, keep your women out of it.

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London 053jackcollier7@talktalk.net

teach me how to learn

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I shall not flow into empty oblivion

my dreams and desires remain

I will carry my passions to completion

for in learning how to unlearn

I have been taught how to learn again

and, in staying calm before taking action

is why, in the end, I shall prevail

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words and pictures by jack collier     jackcollier7@talktalk.net

Make Your Overseas Trip Safe

kiev-1The world is a dangerous place.  Travel is dangerous.  Overseas travel is very dangerous.

I’ve been to more countries and more cities than most people ~ both on business and as part of my personal vacation time.  From food poisoning in Paris, to being propositioned by a transexual hooker in Moscow, to being held up at gunpoint in Nassau, I’ve had my share of unpleasant excitement overseas.

Here is some of the soundest advice I can offer, which will hopefully reduce the dangers of travel to the far-flung parts of the world.

Aedes mosquitoAvoid the Mosquito.  There is a big chunk of the planet where this annoying little insect will wake you at night with its manic high-pitched buzzing.  By the time you hear it the damn thing will already have tasted your blood.  If you are mildly allergic to the mosquito you will get a blister where it’s bitten you.  If you are bitten by the wrong mosquito it can be a lot worse than an unslightly blister.  Much in the news is the Zika virus, which can shrink babies’ brains in the womb.  This virus is now endemic in 24 countries, mostly in Central and South America.  You know what?  The Zika virus isn’t so bad, unless you’re a pregnant woman all you’ll get from Zika is a light fever.  Much, much, nastier diseases spread by the mosquito include; a half-dozen types of encephalitis, dengue fever, malaria, black water fever, rift valley fever and yellow fever.

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The map shows the areas in which the mosquito carries yellow fever, but one can be bitten by the damn insects anywhere from Italy to India.  What I didn’t know is that one can get yellow fever and the Zika virus in California.

Black DogAvoid All Animals.  Rabies is endemic in many parts of the world.  Trust me, you do not want to get rabies.  Don’t go near dogs anywhere, even a friend’s dog is not safe.  Bats, cyotes, skunks and foxes also carry rabies.  The most likely animal you will get rabies from is your local raccoon.  Almost all wild animals can give you all kinds of deadly infections and most wild animals can kill you.  Even supposedly ‘tame’ animals can easily kill you, especially a ‘tame’ elephant can kill you without even breaking sweat.

Avoid Africa.  From Algeria to Zimbabwe all African countries are deadly dangerous.  The whole continent should be avoided by anyone who does not actively seek stupid risks.  You can suffer every sort of crime anywhere in Afrca from being ripped-off to being sexually assaulted, raped and / or murdered.  There is terrorism, revolution and all-out wars going on across half of Africa.  Africa is also filled with lethal wildlife and worse diseases.

Don’t Go To India.  I’ve been to India, it’s backward and mostly lawless.  Just do not even think about going there.  India is a shocking place.  ‘Foreign’ women are always in serious danger in India, even if they are accompanied by a man.  If you go to India you will become very ill, sooner rather than later.  Indian cities are as crowded as an ants’ nest, which is disturbing to Western eyes.

Be Careful Of Local Food and Water.  If you do go to India or Africa you will get sick, probably from either drinking the local water or eating local food.  In the third world even bottled water cannot be trusted, it could actually have come from a faucet in a dirty kitchen.  ‘Delhi Belly’ isn’t a joke.  Local street food may look interesting and fun, but a few days laid up vomiting and crapping your guts out is no fun at all.  In the third world only eat at your hotel, and only drink light beer or gin and tonic ~ be wary of the ice…

Do Not Go Out Alone At Night.  Especially if you are female, Do Not Go Out Alone At Night.  This applies everywhere from London to Los Angeles.  You may think you are a brave and independent feminist ~ in reality you are a potential victim, prey for criminally unscrupulous, violent, and sexually active males.

Do Not Have Casual Sex.  Only bastards and sluts travel to have casual sex.  Especially do not have sex with a local ~ sexually transmitted diseases are very unfunny.  (You can easily contract Zika and several other parasitic and viral diseases from unprotected sex.)  And, Never Ever Pay For Sex when you are overseas ~ excepting in Amsterdam.  If you are a woman just don’t be a loose slut unless you want to suffer anything from forced marriage to murder.  Sexually available and morally lax women and girls are asking for really serious grief in every part of the world.  Acting like a tart will get you into trouble whether you are male or female.

Avoid Central and South America.  From the United States / Mexican Border south to Cape Horn the whole of Central and South America is a violently dangerous, drugs ridden, shit-hole.  You are in danger of robbery, rape, and murder anywhere in Central and South America.  If you don’t speak fluent Spanish / Portuguese then forget it.  If you do go there do not leave your hotel unescorted and do not get separated from your properly organised tour.  All that is in addition to the danger of being bitten by some virulently infections bug or animal.

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Do Not Get Drunk.  Getting drunk in a place you don’t know is incredibly dangerous.  If you get drunk you are at risk of everything from robbery to rape.  Do not take illegal drugs, you may get arrested, or you may die.  Also, do not gamble, do not lose your temper, and Never, Ever, argue with a uniformed official.  Take notice of the advice given by the Foreign Office and State Department. Make damn certain you have all the appropriate documentation for the countries you are visiting.  Make certain you have proper travel insurance.  Make certain you have more than enough cash and credit on your plastic.  Watch the news and don’t turn up in a country that’s just had a natural disaster.  Make very certain you have had all the myriad of injections you need for whichever disease-ridden hell-hole you’re visiting.

The more adventurous and younger travellers may ignore some or all of this advice.  In which case ~ Good Luck.  Personally, and these days, I will only ever visit Western Europe and the various countries of the English Speaking World.  I especially like California, where my favourite thing is to take a long road trip.

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Make Your Own Luck

p004Luck  success or failure by chance.

Life and fate change constantly.  The one thing you can guarantee is that, just when you least expect it, something with come out of the blue and hit you like a runaway freight train.  It could be anything from a job opportunity, being let go from your job, serious illness, being the victim of violence, the death of someone dear to you, or falling in love unwisely.

Does that mean you should shut yourself away, never take a chance, never risk it all?  No, what it means is that you should do all you can to ensure that you will ride out the storm.  That whatever you attempt to do has more than an average chance of success.  That when it comes to it, you can go the extra mile.

hello_____my_name_is_inigo_montoyaThere are some things you can do to improve your chances.  And the first of these is to know yourself.  Know who you are, and be prepared to tell others.  Most of us lie to ourselves.  Most of are unwilling to face unpleasant truths.  Most of us are unwilling to put in the solid, hard graft that it takes to truly know oneself.  Work hard, commit yourself to the truth, because there is really no place to hide from it.

alcoholic-latina-womanWhat is worse is that whatever you try to do, however you try to improve yourself, there will be doubters along your path.  Family, friends, co-workers, you name it… all of these negative people will tell you that you cannot change, that you will never succeed, that you are hopeless and useless.  That you can never recover from your addiction.  Ignore them.

You have to turn a deaf ear to the doubters.  Have some confidence in your own abilities.  Be bolder, tougher, wiser, stronger, calmer and more confident than the next guy.  Don’t be that dumb loser in the corner, be a confident Renaissance Man, be a winner.

Mostly be prepared to shrug off all doubt, shame, and fear.  These destructive bedfellows have no place in your future life.

You don’t need me to wish you good luck ~ from now on you make your own luck.

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sibilant soft silverness

tumescent foaming whiteness

exquisite ethereal lightness

of brilliant Venus

torments my sad

devotion to the hopelessness

of honest love’s caress

by a sinless silent sea

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it’s raining in my heart

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blue sky shining above

sun plays its part

baby cloud and mountain view

but it’s not raining,

raining in my heart

just because of your

endless love

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Aphroditewords and pictures by jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

Palm Desert Art

Drive south-east from central Palm Springs on Route 111 and you come across the Palm Springs Art Museum in Palm Desert.  This is in a seriously upscale area, and the museum is full of very expensive, contemporary pieces.

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Outside, the gardens are filled with quirky sculpture, like these long faces.

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Outside, its garden is a peaceful, spiritual place.  The Renaissance Man should have an interest in art and gardening.

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As an antidote for the constant excitement of Palm Canyon Drive, spend a while wandering the gardens.  If you’re looking for a million dollar home in the Palm Springs area, you can’t really afford Palm Desert.

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But, if you want some landscaping ideas for your desert home, you should really check out the museum’s gardens.

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Keep heading south-west on Route 74 and you are into some cool scenery.  And, on a road trip, cool scenery is one of the prerequisites.  This is the Santa Rosa and San Jacinto Mountains National Park.  And, if this part of California looks familiar, it’s because I’ve seen it countless times in westerns, at the movies and on TV….

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