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The Noble Art of Not Giving a Fuck

Achieve your dream life by rejecting pressure entirely.

Fear is mostly learned.

Low self-esteem is learned.

The experience of sin is learned.

Fear, expectations, obligations, shame, negativity, the notion of sin, anxiety, nervousness, shyness, cynicism…, plague most of us, and none of these are real, these are just emotions, these are things that we have allowed others to teach us.

A lot of our negative character traits are things we have learned through life; arrogance, addictions, alcoholism, brutality, complacency, criminality, dependency, envy, greed, intolerance, jealousy, lying, paranoia, promiscuity, timidity, vindictiveness…..  We are not born with these character defects, we had to learn them, and they are not real, even though they feel very real.

Life is too short to spend in negativity.  So I have made a conscious effort not to be where I don’t want to be.  ~  Hugh Dillon.

Our thoughts, feelings, emotions, feel incredibly real.  My own thoughts, feelings, and emotions were very real to me, and they ruled my life.

I could become very paranoid, jealous, and angry about my partner’s past ~ and that is insane.  The past cannot hurt me, and there’s nothing I can do about it anyway.

We should not be a product of our negative thinking.  We are not our thoughts, feelings, emotions, preconceptions, and assumptions.  If we wish it we have free will.

Other things bothered me a lot; cyclists, bad drivers, charities, environmentalists, the medical profession, people in uniform, politicians, the stupid and the lazy people in this world…..  I spent a lot of my time being annoyed, frustrated, and bad-tempered.

What I needed was a new way of looking at the world, a new way of dealing with all the bad stuff that was ruling and ruining my life.

What I decided was that, deep down, I didn’t actually care about any of this stuff, in exactly the same way that I don’t care one jot for the idea of Catastrophic Anthropogenic Climate Change, (man-made global warming).  What I decided was all this stuff that had been bothering me, all the people and organisations that had been bothering me, could just Fuck Off.

I no longer give all this pernicious negativity permission to affect my life.

Now I can tell the World to; ‘Fuck Off and Have a Nice Day.  Don’t Let the Door Hit You on the Way Out, and Please Don’t Keep In Touch.’

It’s a very empowering attitude.  Obviously I don’t often actually say that out aloud, but just thinking it generates a very liberating feeling.

Try it.  If something or someone upsets you, mentally tell yourself that you don’t give a fuck.  If negative thoughts, feelings, emotions are plaguing you, then mentally tell yourself that you don’t give a fuck.

If some insane attitude or weird preconceptions of your own are ruining your life, just tell yourself that you don’t give a fuck, that you don’t even want to know.

Some say that we should be caring and compassionate, that we should give until it hurts.  And, that we should accept the pain of the world and everyone in it.  All I know is that I don’t give a fuck.

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

 

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

 

 

 

 

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Fucked Up Sometimes

It’s not about self-improvement, it’s about acceptance.

I am often imperfect.

I sometimes make mistakes.

I can be judgemental and cruel.

I try to do the best I can and still fuck up.

I know I can do better if I have the right attitude.

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

English / English ~ Pleb

Many English words have a very doubtful ancestry, but there is no doubt whatsoever concerning the etymology of the word ‘Pleb’.  What is at issue here is usage in English / English.  I would strongly caution anyone against calling any English person a pleb ~ in English / English pleb is a very bad word.

In England, to call someone a ‘Pleb’ is a gross insult ~ pleb is a very pejorative word indeed.  Pleb is also the utter, total, opposite of Posh.

As recently as 2012 a very senior politician was forced to resign after a scandal when he was accused of calling policeman ‘plebs’.  The fact that the politician in question also swore at the police officers, using foul language, was of little import when put against the mere suspicion that the Member of Parliament concerned had called the policemen ‘plebs’.  There is even a name for this scandal ~ plebgate.  (This is funnier than you may think, but you would have to know London to really get the joke.)

As it turned out, the word ‘pleb’ was never used in this case.  The policeman lied.  Had the word actually been used, then that politician’s career would have been over for ever.

weedwomenIn English / English today, ‘Pleb’ means someone of low social status, unsophisticated and uncultured, a common no account person who will never amount to anything, a person to despise and denigrate…  The dictionary definition of ‘pleb’ says an ordinary person…  Not in England.  In England ‘pleb’ implies someone who is maybe one step up from a street drunk.  Pleb is an extremely derogatory term in English / English.

Like many English words, ‘Pleb’ is of Latin origin, (most Latin words have roots in classical Greek).  A pleb was an ordinary citizen of Rome ~ as opposed to a patrician, who was a nobleman and a member of the ruling classes.  To call a man ‘patrician’ is today still something of a compliment.  To call someone a pleb is, and always has been, an insult.

In the USA, a derivation of ‘pleb’ ~ plebe is a perfectly acceptable term for a cadet or freshman.  Just don’t try calling an Englishman a plebe, not unless you want a smack in the gob, (mouth).

Honestly, in England you would often be better off saying ‘Eff Off’ (or words to that effect), or using the ‘C’ word than calling someone a pleb.  Fuck-off, or the ‘C’ word is merely foul and uneducated language.  Pleb is a calculated insult with cultural and class overtones.  That applies doubly so if you are in any way cultured or educated, and the person to whom you are speaking actually is ‘lower class’.

Trust me, in English / English, ‘Pleb’ is a forbidden word.

Next time I’ll discuss the term Brass Monkey.

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dink+smokejackcollier7@talktalk.net

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shattered dreams, shattered souls, shattered surf

life is pain in perpetual perfection

she will steal your dreams and break your heart

you gaze at the stars in reflection

they are dimmed and blurred, red giant, white dwarf

she is the morning star Venus

and she will tear you apart

just to see you cry broken and hopeless

Kiss, fuck, kiss, part ~ forever

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words and pictures by jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

 

 

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