Tag Archives: Erotica

Sexual Infatuation

’tis better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all

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this is what becomes

ashes to ashes

iron to rust to dust

desperate desires

love to hot lust

strong sexual fires

knowing he must

possess her always

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

perverted sexual possession

disgusts the right-thinking man

The Danger of Expectations

I am not in this world to live up to your expectations,
and you’re not in this world to live up to mine

I didn’t expect her to do that at the dinner table

One of the reasons my life was such a mess was that I had some expectations from a relationship that were no longer being met.  I was and am far too attached to a woman, and being in love with a woman always leads to expectations, and in my experience expectations always leads to bitter disappointments.  Those disappointments were making me very confused, is it infatuation, lust, desire, love, an emotional need, or a dysfunctional friendship?  And how does a normal guy find a way through that Dionysian maze?

Expectation is the root of all heartache.  ~  Shakespeare

No matter how hard I tried I could not free myself of the expectation that I deserved an emotional, sensual and sexual friendship where the love I thought I felt was returned freely and fully.  That is the big danger of having expectations, often they are unrealistic, often they lead us to believe that we deserve something or someone, and quite often our expectations are a million miles from the reality of any given situation.

Also expectations are passive, we don’t need to actually do anything to have huge expectations.  Expectations are the result of feelings, and I should know that feelings are often false and the result of twisted programming hard wired into our subconscious mind before we were seven years of age.  Feelings are not real, and our feelings often have fuck all to do with what’s going on in the real world.

We should never blame people for disappointing us, we should blame ourselves for expecting too much from them, or expecting things from them that they can’t give to us, or don’t want to give us.  We should never blame others for our own negative feelings of anger, jealousy, misery, resentment, sadness…..  Our feelings belong only to ourselves, we should own them, and if our feelings are distressing us don’t try to change the world, that’s too difficult, we should change ourselves instead.

Expectations can be as trivial as expecting a nice day, as important as expecting a pay rise at work, or as destructive as thinking you love someone who doesn’t love you.  Unrequited love is incredibly painful, trust me, I know.

We always want what we can’t have, life is so cruel that way.

Some say that if we don’t expect the good things from life then all we will ever get is dross.  And that we have a right to expect to get what we want the most.  All I know is that I’m still trying to find a way to stop loving someone.  You’d think a man would know.

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

and I expected a great beach-front hotel

Monochrome Monday ~ Erotic Smoking

sometimes smoking is a highly sexual act

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Jack Collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

 

most will find this picture erotic

Monochrome Monday ~ Sexual and Sensual

seduction begins with the pictures you create in her mind

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

some say that there are many sexes

and that you don’t have to choose

all I know is that most people like sex

Monochrome Monday ~ Hot Guys

he was so out of her league they hadn’t invented his league yet

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

 

what it is to be young, fit, and attractive

although older women don’t like that sort of thing

Monochrome Monday ~ Male Nudes

an heroic god, and all is as if the world did cease to exist

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Some say that when you get a taste of a real man, the rest of the world never tastes the same.

jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

 

intelligence is enormously sexy

but so is a very toned body

Monochrome Monday ~ Bondage

I will give you all that you are afraid to ask for

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

 

it takes either a boy scout

or a sailor to be really good with knots

hopefully these weren’t tied by a boy scout

Monochrome Monday ~ Sexuality

seduction, sensuality, passion, mutuality, monochromatic erotica

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

expressing an ideal

the human form unreal

in monochromatic erotica

Monochrome Monday ~ Bondage

I want you.  I need you.  I’m addicted to you.

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

 

Now is different,

there are no limits

after all, you’re no lady.

Monochrome Monday ~ Sexy Guys

There is nothing as dangerous than a man with looks and charm.

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

 

lots of hours in the gym

and more hours in front of a camera

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