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Random Jottings ~ Casual Sex

everybody’s journey is different, but some are on the road to hell

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when you’re young it’s good to be bad

when you’re middle-aged it’s reprehensible

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morality? it’s whatever you think it is, at the time

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never trust a married lover who swears there is no one but you

not all witches are crones, I’ve met one who wears satin lingerie and stiletto heels

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maybe she should have stopped counting when she slept with a boy who was the same age as his number

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if he could go back to the day they met he would turn around and walk away

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

where were you? he asked

in your head, she said

Tits Tuesday ~ Monochrome

Tits Tuesday and some women like to take photographs of themselves

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

 

tasteful,

false but tasteful

moonlight lust

the moon watched over all her lustful infidelities

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alone

it was over

lonely midnight

moon shining silver

and she was going home

trying to smile, nothing there

she was beautiful, a mature slut

she would regret her lascivious lust

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

 

just a thong, under a see thru dress

and what’s wrong with that?

 

 

don’t ask about love

casual sex is the consolation you get when you can’t have love

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‘Darling, may I ask you a question?’

‘Of course, ask me anything…..’

‘Have you ever been really in love?’

‘Like, in love, who with?’

‘Me, for a start…..’

‘Not really, not ever…..’

He took away the keys to her German sports car right after that.

She poisoned his designer coffee.

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

 

never trust a woman who smokes in the bedroom

 

The Games People Play

it’s not just casual sex, it’s fully exploring her sexuality

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The bar wasn’t crowded.  Younger guys playing pool, watching sports, drinking beer, looking at the older woman sitting alone.  Sexy dress, no bra, black stockings, much makeup.  One young guy caught her eye; ‘Do you wanna fuck?’ he mouthed.  ‘Yes….’ she mouthed back.  It was their first and last time.

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

she thought the twenty-years age difference was hot

he thought she looked like an easy fuck

 

Not the Best Girlfriend Ever

for a woman in a relationship to flirt with other men is a sin

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have you met my girlfriend?

she’s the only one I’ve got

maybe not the best girlfriend

doesn’t seem to care a lot

 

they say she’s had many others

that I’m mad to be her lover

an easy fuck, a tramp, a whore

 

she’s not much of a girlfriend

once an old cocotte pretty hot

take a look at my girlfriend

too much older married a tart

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

 

perhaps flashing is fun for mature women

older women flashing is fun for boys

 

 

 

(this isn’t about anyone I know anymore, it was an exercise for my writers’ group)

Sexual Flirt

flirting is a woman’s trade, and she likes to keep in practice

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She’s a flirt, bold and explicit

she’s good at being so bad

short skirt and tall stilettos

low cut, easily available tits

I know I should be very mad

God’s help me I’m complicit

much younger guys ~ boys

my wife doesn’t slow down

casual sex, young male toys

she’s gives all they can take

Crap! I’m her foolish clown

but I’ll keep my own time

and have her back one day

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

 

your friend flashing ~ in a nice restaurant is kind of hot

Sex and Love

it’s easy to have sex without love, but hard to have love without sex

Love is either a wonderful thing; the best thing that’s even happened to you ~ or it’s a disaster akin to a psychological disorder such as repeated suicide attempts.  One thing is clear, that when love hits you, it’s like being hit by a runaway freight train.  For good or ill, love will change your life completely.  But then, so will sex.  Aside from a one night stand of casual fucking, sex comes in several forms; desire, lust, infatuation, incest, eroticism, BDSM, fascination, passion, possessiveness, prostitution, pornography…..  None of those has anything to do with real love, and all are momentary, fleeting, temporary.

Sex is the ultimate instant gratification, wanting someone and having casual sex with them will / should make you feel great, but that feeling will never last for long.  Which is why some, especially mature married women, the archetypal MILF, can be very promiscuous.  It’s why some women continually buy lots of new shoes, or use drugs, or post erotic pictures of themselves on the internet, or have a string of affairs ~ they are just jonesing, chasing after that moment of intense pleasure.  It’s why men get addicted to pornography.

If they didn’t have it before, people who indulge in this kind of behaviour will have low self-esteem, lack self-confidence, have no true sense of identity, and most likely drink far too much and use the ‘softer’ drugs.  Seeking this kind of ‘love’ might give you successful moments, but it is no basis for a successful life.  In fact, in the long run, this kind of behaviour will ruin your life.

On the other hand, real and sustainable love can appear unexciting and less cool than fucking a different person every week, but do not be fooled by appearances.  This is what you need to create a truly successful and happy life.  It is what you feel in meaningful relationships ~ those relationships where you truly connect with, accept, and understand both yourself and the object of your affections.  Developing and living in those relationships can be difficult ~ it’s very easy to get fucked by someone you’ve just met in a pub, especially for a woman.  It’s more difficult to live in love for month after month, year after year.  The temptation to walk away from a deep and meaningful relationship is often in the air, but perseverance is richly rewarded.

To have a meaningful, long-term, loving relationship requires one thing that most people can’t or will not do, and that is to be honest.  You need to be honest, open and trusting ~ and not only with your partner, but with yourself too.  I can count on the fingers of one hand the number of people I have met who are truly honest with themselves and with others.  To use a hackneyed quotation ‘Everybody Lies’.

Some say that they are very much in love, but sleep with a different person every week, or more often than that.  And that casual affairs don’t ever count, what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas.  All I know is that for two people in love the Cosmos is a wonderful place to be.

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

this is most likely lust in a pub

followed by casual sex in a car

Satin and Lace

never leave the house without making certain your seams are straight

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jack collier

jacckcollier7@talktalk.net

all women have great legs

some like then apart

Reinventing Yourself

Reinventing yourself is an essential process if you want to flourish

I came to a point in my life where I knew that I had to change, it was time to make a fresh start.  As we mature, as we learn and gain greater wisdom, it is inevitable that our goals, dreams plans, and expectations change.  And for some of us, struggling with difficult emotional, mental, and psychological problems, we know that we need to let go of that which doesn’t work any more, never really worked, and was never going to work as far as our personal life and relationships are concerned.

It’s first of all about letting go of expectations, resentments, and hard-wired negative emotions.  It’s about exploring and educating ourselves in new ways of living, it’s about finding ways to cope with those hard-wired negative emotions, it’s about discovering new ways of being, doing, thinking, and feeling.

Invent yourself and then reinvent yourself….. and reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.  ~  Charles Bukowski

However, I kid you not, unless you are reinventing yourself as an even worse version of the person you are today, (and I have seen many do that), then making a fundamental change to who and what you are, is fucking very difficult.

You can become a new, different, and better person very easily using your conscious mind ~ but know this, your conscious mind is only in control of your actions for about 5% of the time, the other 95% of the time your subconscious mind is in charge.  And you can’t talk to your subconscious and tell it that you’ve changed because there is nobody in there.  Your subconscious is made up of a set of programs that just run in response to stimuli and rewriting those programs is next to impossible.

One proven way to do it is called Habituation or Act As If.  It’s like learning to drive a car, you practice and you practice until a new set of ‘driving programs’ is stored in your subconscious.  So if you want to stop drinking, smoking, taking drugs, gambling, having endless casual sexual relationships, being a jerk, being a thief…..  then you need to practice and practice not doing those negative things and instead be a better person until those new and better programs are stored in your subconscious.  It will take a year or two.

The snag is that your family, ‘friends’, coworkers, partners in crime, et al., will sabotage you at every turn.  If you’re trying to stop drinking / smoking / taking drugs and you go out with your old circle of friends they will encourage you to drink / smoke / use ~ and the chances are you will give in.  They will continue to label you as alcoholic, addict, slut, jerk, thief, chain-smoker….. in casual conversation and when describing you ~ and that is how they will always think of you.  And none of that is helpful.

The lesson is, if you are reinventing yourself you have to leave behind your old life ~ including all those unsupportive family members, false friends, and toxic relationships because they will do their utmost to drag you down into the past.

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

your false friends would like to see you stay there in the gutter with a bottle

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