Tag Archives: Casual Sex

Random Jottings ~ Friendship

a friend when you are in need, is a friend indeed

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friendship isn’t a test of endurance

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friendship is not a deal, it’s a state of being

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true friendship asks no questions and tells no lies

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if your lover isn’t your best friend, then it’s just casual sex

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a real friend is like a spring of cool clear water in the desert heat

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he isn’t your friend if he makes you feel like you’re always walking on eggshells

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your best friend is your starlight and your guide when you are lost in the darkness

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

a friend will find you

no matter where you are

 

Intimate Strangers

some things are socially acceptable, and then again…..

Promiscuous casual sex is morally reprehensible, socially unacceptable, and fucking very dangerous.  Or rather, that is what I believe to be the truth of it.  One reason for this post is a news story concerning a married woman who picked up / was picked up by a stranger in a bar, went back to his place, where she was stabbed twenty times by the drug addict thug, who then tried to cut off her head.  The body was naked.  They’d had sex.

This was by no means an isolated incident of casual sex turning into something very worse.

Picking up a stranger in a bar may be exciting, sexy, erotic, physically satisfying, with a frisson of danger thrown in, but it can also be fucking damaging to your self-respect, health, wealth, sanity, existing relationships, future relationships, social standing…..  You could end up being humiliated, mugged, beaten, raped, passed around, stalked, gaslighted, ghosted, or dead.

Some of the same goes for people you ‘meet’ on social media, dating / sex dating sites, or any of the other myriad ways we can connect via the internet.  Basically you have no idea who these people are, where they’re from, what they’re really like, their history, criminal record, and what the hell they really want from you.  Are they the sex / age / ethnicity they say they are?  If there’s a picture is it of them, and how long ago?  If it’s an intimate picture they are probably not someone any decent person would want to know anyway.

There are labels for women who have casual sex with strangers and post intimate pictures of themselves on the internet ~ all of those labels are extremely derogatory.

Personally, I have three things in my favour when it comes to social media / email / long-distance friends and relationships.  #1 I know my way around blogging.  #2 I am a man.  #3 I am very smart / computer savvy / I was trained to spot liars a mile off.  Not everyone has my advantages, and yet women do engage in intimate relationships with people they only know from what they see on their own computer screens.

Personally, I have never knowingly ‘hit on’ a woman I didn’t know from Eve, picked up a woman in a bar, had first date sex, had multiple partners, been on a sex dating site, had sex with an ex, had sex with anyone much older / younger than me…..  Maybe I am staid and naive, maybe I’m shy, or maybe I have standards, ethics, and morals.

Some say that fucking a stranger is incredibly hot.  And that having multiple sexual partners is where it’s at.  All I know is fucking a stranger has nothing to do with love and a lot to do with instant gratification, or money.

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

 

If you’ve been there with a stranger I don’t want to know

 

 

Random Jottings ~ Infidelity and Casual Sex

no normally healthy men and women can be ‘just good friends’

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he could tell she was easy

the plunging neckline, short skirt, and no lingerie was a giveaway

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no matter how careful you are, you will always get caught

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the best apology for cheating is changed behaviour,

it never happens

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it takes two people to make a relationship work

but just one promiscuous person to make it fail

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bad marriages don’t cause infidelity

promiscuous infidelity causes bad marriages

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‘I love you…’ she said’

get in the back seat…’ he replied

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

 

casual sex is never just a one time thing

Random Jottings ~ Casual Sex

everybody’s journey is different, but some are on the road to hell

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when you’re young it’s good to be bad

when you’re middle-aged it’s reprehensible

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morality? it’s whatever you think it is, at the time

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never trust a married lover who swears there is no one but you

not all witches are crones, I’ve met one who wears satin lingerie and stiletto heels

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maybe she should have stopped counting when she slept with a boy who was the same age as his number

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if he could go back to the day they met he would turn around and walk away

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

where were you? he asked

in your head, she said

Tits Tuesday ~ Monochrome

Tits Tuesday and some women like to take photographs of themselves

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

 

tasteful,

false but tasteful

moonlight lust

the moon watched over all her lustful infidelities

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alone

it was over

lonely midnight

moon shining silver

and she was going home

trying to smile, nothing there

she was beautiful, a mature slut

she would regret her lascivious lust

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

 

just a thong, under a see thru dress

and what’s wrong with that?

 

 

don’t ask about love

casual sex is the consolation you get when you can’t have love

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‘Darling, may I ask you a question?’

‘Of course, ask me anything…..’

‘Have you ever been really in love?’

‘Like, in love, who with?’

‘Me, for a start…..’

‘Not really, not ever…..’

He took away the keys to her German sports car right after that.

She poisoned his designer coffee.

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

 

never trust a woman who smokes in the bedroom

 

The Games People Play

it’s not just casual sex, it’s fully exploring her sexuality

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The bar wasn’t crowded.  Younger guys playing pool, watching sports, drinking beer, looking at the older woman sitting alone.  Sexy dress, no bra, black stockings, much makeup.  One young guy caught her eye; ‘Do you wanna fuck?’ he mouthed.  ‘Yes….’ she mouthed back.  It was their first and last time.

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

she thought the twenty-years age difference was hot

he thought she looked like an easy fuck

 

Not the Best Girlfriend Ever

for a woman in a relationship to flirt with other men is a sin

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have you met my girlfriend?

she’s the only one I’ve got

maybe not the best girlfriend

doesn’t seem to care a lot

 

they say she’s had many others

that I’m mad to be her lover

an easy fuck, a tramp, a whore

 

she’s not much of a girlfriend

once an old cocotte pretty hot

take a look at my girlfriend

too much older married a tart

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

 

perhaps flashing is fun for mature women

older women flashing is fun for boys

 

 

 

(this isn’t about anyone I know anymore, it was an exercise for my writers’ group)

Sexual Flirt

flirting is a woman’s trade, and she likes to keep in practice

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She’s a flirt, bold and explicit

she’s good at being so bad

short skirt and tall stilettos

low cut, easily available tits

I know I should be very mad

God’s help me I’m complicit

much younger guys ~ boys

my wife doesn’t slow down

casual sex, young male toys

she’s gives all they can take

Crap! I’m her foolish clown

but I’ll keep my own time

and have her back one day

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

 

your friend flashing ~ in a nice restaurant is kind of hot

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