Category Archives: Photography

the madness of desire

.….you should stop being so carnal, and learn to say no to men.  ~  Adelaja

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animal anxiety ardour

benefits bitch bitterness

carnal courtesan covet

desire discontent distrust

eagerness ecstacy excitement

feelings fervour fuck

grope grasp grudge

harlot heat hussy

indignation insanity intensity

jaundiced jealousy tight jeans

karma kept kindness

libido love lust

madness mania mistrust

nonsensical nymphet nymphomaniac

obscene orgasmic outrage

paroxysm passion pleasure

rancour risqué romantic

screw sexuality shag slut

tart tolerance tramp

umbrage unhappiness urban-survival

vamp vixen vulgar

wanting whore welcoming

younger men

zeal zest zygote

she has animal demons inside her innocently carnal eyes

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

 

stroking her leg in public

some carnal women like that

Monochrome Monday ~ Sexy Guys

There is nothing as dangerous than a man with looks and charm.

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

 

lots of hours in the gym

and more hours in front of a camera

Scenes on Sunday ~ Beaches

The sea rewards those men who have love in their heart.

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

Marmaduke likes the beach too

Desire’s Urgent Breathing

The unbearable pain of loving a woman who does not love you.

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hot heavy deep urgent

steaming locomotive breath

passions spent and now resting

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

 

she just gives it away

to whomsoever wants her

casual sex is what she desires

The Unbearable Truth of Love

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Dawn’s painful musing

Losing everything

with one goodbye

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

Monochrome Monday ~ Roads

Some men see the world in terms of black and white ~ I’m one of them.

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

what a cool place name

Scenes on Sunday ~ Utah Skies

In the sky’s vast infinity one’s soul is manifest loneliness.

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

 

pictures taken by

The Girl Riding Shotgun

Building Rapport with Women

a close and harmonious relationship based on acceptance and understanding

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It’s not necessary to build rapport with a woman if all you want to do is have sex with her ~ but it certainly helps.  Just casual sex does not require rapport.  Instead, true rapport is the indefinable process of accepting and understanding one another, and thereby becoming comfortable together.  If you have true rapport with a woman, then she will trust you, follow you, and believe in you.  For this to happen she needs to understand you and be able to rely upon you.  Ergo you have to become consistent, reliable, and dependable.

As it goes, women are more natural at building rapport than are most men ~ they are usually more open, more understanding, and more communicative than the average male.  Women tend to have more empathy and be more interested in relationships, whereas men are usually just interested in sex.

To build rapport with a woman, be someone she actually wants to be around ~ and that doesn’t mean just spending a lot of money on her, (but that often helps).  Avoid being selfish and talking about yourself, instead listen to her and try and learn about her wants, needs, desires, and dreams.  Always remain calm, and speak slowly and softly.  Be warm, accepting, and understanding.  And, never fall into the common male mistake of thinking that you have to educate her about something she has no interest in whatsoever.

In Neuro Linguistic Programming, and other psychological / interpersonal approaches to communication and building rapport, there are a number of techniques that even a geek can learn and use.  These include; mirroring, leading, and pacing.  In all honesty, these are artificial techniques best left to the salesman who wants to up his closure rate.  However, this stuff is powerful, and it does work on women.

The most basic and powerful way to connect with a woman is to listen to her.  Just listen, and don’t interrupt her because she will not like that.  Perhaps the most important thing you can give her is your undivided attention.  And after that; acceptance, respect, and understanding.

Some say that it is impossible to be successful with a woman without building rapport.  And that you need to spend time understanding what she is thinking.  All I know is that sometimes I have to try just that bit harder.

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

here’s looking at you kid

Monochrome Monday ~ Landscapes

There is something classy about a monochrome picture.

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jack collier

jackcollier7@tatalk.net

Monochrome Monday ~ Corsets

I’m one of those strange beasts who really likes a corset.

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jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

 

very pretty corset

very, very tiny waist

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