Wants, Needs, Desires, and Shoes

why women desire more shoes and men don’t have a clue

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It’s a funny thing, most men will buy themselves a new pair of shoes for a very special occasion, a new job, a first date, getting married…..  Or, if the shoes they habitually wear are so down at heal and scruffy that even spit and polish will no longer make them presentable.

In contrast most women will buy new shoes just because they like them, or to feel better, or because they like shopping, or they’ve bought a new dress / suit and they need shoes and a purse to match.  Women will also buy new shoes for a very special occasion, a new job, meeting old friends, vacations, a first date, getting married…..

But then most women like shopping, especially with his credit card, and most men don’t like shopping at all.  And most men can’t understand that at all, but then most men don’t have a clue about women.

A woman needs to know but one man to understand all men; whereas a man may know many women and not understand one of them.  ~  Helen Rowland

But then, most women know that most men are just a life-support system for their penis.

It’s a fact that women write almost all the books on human relationships, marriage, sex, and love ~ and that 80% of the people who buy these books are women.  Perhaps men would understand women better if they made an effort, and yet men don’t even listen when their partner is trying to talk with them.  A lot of men equate their wife / partner / girlfriend attempting to have a conversation as nagging.  And only women nag.  A man may criticise, find fault, complain, and go into ‘problem-solving mode’ ~ but that’s not nagging, that’s just passing on their years of accumulated masculine wisdom.

When women nag, go on and on about something, they firmly believe that their ‘nagging’ shows that they care about their man.  She might know she is being irritating, but she can’t help it because she’s a nest-builder, nurse, manager, and mother.  And, she knows that she’s telling then truth.

The fact is men and women are very different, right down to the structure of their brains, bodies, emotions, feelings, and instincts.  There is no equality of the sexes, which is why women desire more shoes, and men don’t have a clue.


jack collier


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11 responses

  1. Great post! ROTF at life support system line! Lots of great insights – thank you! PS: Shoes R Us 😉💗

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    1. You know I like sexy shoes ❤

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  2. and now I have to write the book on human relationships… 😂

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    1. Well, yes….
      I haveno doubt you have enough life experiences to writ something brilliantly interesting 💖

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      1. Yeah but it’s boring to write about real relationships. I’m usually skipping the real-life-examples in the psychological books (non-fiction) 😂

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        1. Write about fictional relationships, extreme issues, hot sex ~ but make it almost real, based on almost real people. ❤

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          1. I hate real sex writing… I haven’t read erotica from 16yo 😂

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          2. Well, it was a lie, cuz I did… I read the book of librepaley blog (on Wp), she writes erotica. But I read bcz she is an indie 🙂 & very good at what she does = writing ✍️

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  3. I have only 1 pair of shoes this winter… wonder, what I am cuz it seems I do not belong to the groups you described above 😱😂😉

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    1. Never, a beautiful woman with only one pair of shoes 😎
      Shock, horror, hold the phone…… 💖

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