Negative, Cynical, and Critical

it takes courage to be positive and happy when you’re hurting

sometimes we all need a little quiet contemplation

Reading back through my blog I’ve realised that so many of my posts are negative, critical of others, and quite cynical.  My only excuse is that in recent years my heart has been hurting and my head has been confused.  There is no cure for that unless one wants to change.  You can’t stop being negative until you realise that there is another way of looking at life.

Well, there is going to be no more of that.  It’s way past time that I looked on the bright side of life.

The world is a wonderful place, filled with dreamy clouds and blue skies if you have the will to search for them.  Most people are good, interesting, and kind; and if you come across the other sort, someone truly toxic, then walk away from them, and don’t look back.

Be crazy, be weird, be stupid, be creative, be whatever ~ life is to short to be anything but happy.


jack collier


I’ll get by with a little help from my friend.


Marmaduke is always happy


14 responses

  1. Monty Pythod wasn’t wrong: Always look on the bright side of life! 😀

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    1. That should say Python. 😀

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    2. You are kind and sweet ~ and you make me smile 💕💕💕

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      1. Thank you, Jack! Although my typing leaves a lot to be desired. 😀

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  2. Good words for us all 🍁🧡

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    1. Words for me to live by. 😎❤

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      1. words for all us to live
        imagine the world if we did

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  3. Well described and I am sure you will be happy. Take care.

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    1. Marmaduke is looking after me. 🌹

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  4. Indeed we do need a little help from our friends. But sometimes writing about that negativity also reduces the stress we are feeling at that time. Sort of blowing off steam. ANother lyris that came to mind was “Don’t worry Be Happy”
    i think you got

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    1. Thank you for your kind words Sweetheart 💖💖💖


  5. Happiness comes from overcoming the sadness. Sounds like you are well on your way. Continue to reach for the light, but look back at the dark too. Only then will you know your true happiness.

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    1. I well remember the darkness. I also know that not everything about that friendship was bad. Yet today I know what real happiness and real friendship feels like.
      Thank you Amelia. ❤ ❤
      Enjoy your Thanksgiving.

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