Stress #3 ~ Living with Distress

if you want to conquer the anxiety of life
live in the moment, live in the breath


If you are tormented by stress, if distress is making your life a misery, then what is the best way to live with it?  The short answer is don’t.  If the situation you’re in is so stressful it’s making you ill; for example a dysfunctional relationship, or a really shitty job, then just leave, get out take yourself away from the cause of your stress.  If someone else is causing you great distress; for example your ex is stalking you, then do whatever it takes to make them stop, including invoking the full force of the law.  If what you’re doing to yourself is the biggest cause of your stress; for example you are drinking to much, using drugs, gambling, living a promiscuous life…..  the for fucks sake stop.

You may / will need help to stop doing whatever it is you’re doing that’s making you ill with stress ~ start with your doctor, who will want to give you ‘happy pills’ like Prozac. Medication for stress is worse than useless, except as a short-term life preserver.  Most medication your doctor may want to give you for stress will be addictive in it’s own right, and SSRIs like Prozac might make you want to kill yourself.

To live a fairly normal life if you are suffering from severe stress then try some / all of these;

(there isn’t room to fully explain all these here, this is your chance to use your Google skills)

  • Routine.  Have a very solid daily and weekly routine, do the same essential things at the same time every day.  This will take away some of your worries because a lot of the time you can operate on auto-pilot.  Most importantly go to bed at the same time every night, and get up at the same time every morning.
  • Get Enough Good Sleep.  Stress causes sleep problems, and lack of sleep makes you anxious, agitated, impatient, and stressed.  It’s a vicious circle.  You need 6 to 9 hours of good sleep every night.  Don’t use sleep medication, in the long term that’s harmful and addictive.
  • Physical Activity.  Regular physical activity will benefit your physical, mental, and spiritual health.  Fresh air and exercise will alleviate your anxiety, stress, and depression ~ it will also help you to sleep at night.  Try the 10,000 steps a day challenge ~ it helps.
  • Meditation and Mindfulness.  Before you go to bed at night try to meditate for 20 or 30 minutes.  Practicing mindfulness is proven to help relieve stress.
  • Breathing.  There are a lot of controlled breathing / relaxation techniques.  I have something very individual that works for me, kept me alive more than once.
  • Learn Effective Time Management.  If you are constantly running from pillar to post, then no wonder you are stressed.  If you are at everyone else’s beck and call, plagued by interruptions, then no wonder you are stressed.
  • Dietary Supplements.  The chances are you’re not eating well, so the chances are your body is chronically short of vital vitamins and minerals; for example a deficiency of potassium or vitamin K might kill you.

There are innumerable websites that will give you all the information and advice you need on the above topics.

Some say that they’re not really stressed.  And they’re just having a bad day.  All I know is that less stress equals more happiness.


jack collier


If you’re in real trouble, sit quietly for a while, empty your mind; and do not do anything stupid.

17 responses

  1. Excellent advice and spot on!

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  2. Awww jack melt my heart 💜 that was the sweetest comment thank you! Xoxo

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    1. Just read my posts about stress, and you may just find a little help in there. 💗

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  3. All smiles and rainbows and sunshine 👍💖

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    1. Angel you bring light and colour into the world. You deserve much better than to be perpetually stressed. 💗💗💗

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  4. Spoken with truth and honesty 💜💖👍

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    1. That’s what I do,. You can trust my words. 💖💞💘


      1. I am with you jack..keep it real! I believe In being yourself and letting that person shine! I will never let someone dim my light again…its too bright!! Lesson learned ❤💜

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        1. Good for you. Never let some guy make you sacrifice your indepence and life purpose, never again. 💖💖💖

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  5. Awwww….jack 💖 your so sweet! I always say when I write passion and sensuality equal beautiful honesty no vulgarity and be expressive xoxo

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    1. You are good as passion and sensuality.
      I am good at facts ma’am, just the facts 💖😎

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  6. Very informative ❤💜 great post jack xoxo

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    1. It is my honour to please you Angel ❤❤❤

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  7. Love it jack! 😊❤👍

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    1. Thanks Nikki, I trust its helpful 🌹

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