Christmas is a Future Thing

Christmas is forever, not just for one day.

Aside from the whole birth of Jesus Christ thing a couple of thousand years ago, around dawn at some stable in the middle of the desert, why should Christmas Day be different from any other day in the calendar?  Maybe we feel we should be especially nice to people, be more giving and forgiving, be more loving towards ourselves and others?  Perhaps it’s the one day in the year we think of, email, telephone, or visit friends, relatives, or loved ones we haven’t thought of or seen since last Christmas.  Perhaps Christmas Day is the day that our heart breaks all over again.

Some people look forward to Christmas, thinking that the day will bring them the happiness they so want and need.  Trust me, looking for happiness in the future is a short road to misery ~ even believing that you will be happier at Christmas than the unhappiness you’ve suffered for the rest of this year might not be your best ever plan.

One result of trying to find happiness in the future is that we can wish our lives away, believing the future will be better than now.  There are some basic rules; nothing ever changes, the only thing we can change is ourselves, and tomorrow will pretty much be the same as today.

There are some supplementary rules, one of which is that travel over the Christmas holidays is going to be fucking terrible.  Flights will be packed and delayed, trains will be cancelled, and the roads will be full of Sunday drivers who have no idea how to cope if it even so much as rains.  And if it snows…..

My 5th or 6th worst memory of a Christmas is trying to drive the 300 miles from London to Durham, on Christmas Eve, in a blizzard.  That annual journey was one of the reasons I never looked forward with pleasure to Christmas.  It grew so that I dreaded Christmas Eve.

And yet, around midnight, I still searched the night sky, hoping to see the magic of Santa.

Christmas changes everyone and everything.  Christmas changes our memories of the past, our attitudes in the present, and our expectations for the future.  We each of us hope for a brighter Christmas and a better New Year.  So, Hallelujah ~ Noel ~ Be it Heaven or Hell, the Christmas we get we deserve.

Some say that Christmas has become too commercialised.  And there is no such person as Santa Claus, magical or otherwise.  All I know is that I have a friend who leaves a carrot out for his donkey and a glass of tequila for him.

~

jack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

 

how will Santa cope when there are moms on the moon?

2 responses

  1. I completely agree with you jack… and many years ago Tom and I decided to celebrate Christmas everyday! It is allowing the joy to emanate through the fullness of the human. Presents are nice but again this can be given throughout the year, especially to self❤️ We also have the lights and decorations all year around, changing them as the season changes. The only thing extra we bring out at Christmas is the tree as extra decoration and a more fancy table with a delicious dinner with friends and family❤️ happy holidays💃🏼🕺

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  2. I like every day. Christmas is fun for me because of decorating and it’s a time to give when giving is accepted. Like Valentine’s Day. It’s a favorite holiday cuz I can love and love and give and no one minds!
    But, I can’t really remember too many Christmas days..til I left home. The only Christmas travel was with the boys to Alaska and the return was horrible! Stuck in Seattle airport for three days! 😳😳😳

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