Demons and Doubletalk

there are some thoughts you can’t avoid,
and some feelings you can’t deny

When you have a personality disorder your mind will lie to you.  Your subconscious mind will take a grain of truth and build it into a dark castle in the clouds with lightning all around.  When that happens you will struggle to stay grounded.  Your demons will create dismal feelings and negative thoughts that your conscious mind will need to react to and act upon.  The anger, jealousy, paranoia, and resentments will overwhelm you.  You will plan and scheme and in an instant come up with a way to hit back, to get even, to relieve the pain in your soul.

The saner part of you will know that it’s all twisted logic and internal doubletalk, but right there and then the saner part is no friend of yours.  The very last thing you need when you are in that dark space is reasonable self-awareness and self-control, because you know that everybody lies to you and everyone betrays you.  No one and nothing is to be trusted nor relied upon.  The only things you can trust are the voices in your own mind.  You will truly be all alone in Heartbreak Hotel.

The demons with their doubletalk are insidious, persistent, and pernicious ~ your demons are always there and they will never let up.  Your demons will give you insane feelings and nightmares, driving you down to another rock bottom where the mental anguish will torture and torment you.

You may try to escape into booze, drugs, gambling, casual sex with strangers, isolating yourself, just disappearing, violence….. or you may attempt suicide, and you might just succeed.  I suffer from Borderline Personality Disorder, (BPD), and about 10% of all those with this mental malady commit suicide.  Or , you may just threaten suicide.  BPD is the only personality disorder where attempted suicide and threats of suicide are among the diagnostic criteria.

How then do you escape from your demons and their destructive doubletalk?  Sad thing is you can’t. There is no cure for most personality disorders, (and the majority of other mental illnesses).  There isn’t even any effective medication if you have Borderline Personality Disorder, and no responsible doctor would give drugs to anyone with BPD.

All you can do is try to recover from the worst effects of your mental malady.  The demons will never go away completely, but you can stop listening to them.  Act as if you know what love is.  Act as if you have only good feelings.  Act as if you are not being torn apart inside.

All I know is that if you keep doing what you did, you’ll keep on getting what you got.

~

lies & truthjack collier

jackcollier7@talktalk.net

the truth will always find you out

but lies are more powerful

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