Acceptability and Conformity

A firm sense of right and wrong isn’t fashionable these days.


It seems that unless I always agree with what others think, say, and do ~ then I’m wrong, bad, reactionary, and backward.  Worse than that, if I happen to think that what other people have done isn’t necessarily ethical or sensible, then somehow I’m attacking them.  I’m not, I just disagree.

Look at what the majority of people are saying and doing, and do the exact opposite, and you’ll probably never go wrong for as long as you live.  ~  Earl Nightingale.

Thinking and doing the opposite of what the majority is doing or has done isn’t about being different for the sake of being different.  There are lots of times that agreeing with everyone else is the right thing to do.  There are lots of times when the well-trodden path is the right one for me to take.

The challenge for me is to know when to take the road less travelled.

Thinking, saying, and doing the opposite of what others would have me do is quite likely to make me feel uncomfortable.  It’s scary, lonely, and exposes me to the harshest criticisms.  It’s never easy to be seen to be going against the grain, and ignoring the attitudes and advice of my friends, family, and wider society.  But, I’m used to being uncomfortable and the odd one out.

I feel no need to justify my ethics, attitudes, and actions ~ no matter the slings and arrows of discontent thrown against me.

Doing the exact opposite of the norm, or refusing to change who and what I am, does not always achieve the results, goals, and dreams I want.  But, I have discovered that just repeating what others do, or agreeing with what others think, doesn’t always work either.

Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.  ~  Albert Einstein.

There are some people it would be much easier to always agree with.  It would probably make me much happier just to agree with them and go along with what they like.

It isn’t going to happen.

Some say that it’s good to be liberated and do whatever you like regardless of the consequences.  And, that if you don’t agree with the latest and most fashionable opinion, then you’re wrong and reactionary.  All I know is that I have the strongest possible self-awareness and self-discipline, and I’m happy with that.


jack collier

sometimes, a real man needs to take the road less travelled

15 responses

  1. This above all, to thine own self be true.


  2. The best way to be is true to yourself, ain’t nothing wrong with that!


  3. Agreeing to disagree takes guts!

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  4. A superb post. Spot on.

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    1. Thank you Sweetheart. I do my best. ❤ ❤ 😉

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  5. I don’t try to be different, but if someone says something I don’t agree with – I don’t hold my tongue either. Being politically correct, IMO, is giving up your freedom of speech.

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    1. I think political correctness is just censorship by another name. 😉

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  6. Us unusual people have to stick together.

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    1. I’m really glad you think I’m unusual. ❤ ❤ ❤

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      1. You certainly are. Not many people feel the need to not only post pictures of scantily clad women in corsets but to also admit that is your thing.

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        1. There will be no more posts like those. ❤

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  7. Insanity is what you get when you do the same thing over and over…. and get different results. Welcome to the politically-correct new world. 👿

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    1. I utterly fail at being politically correct. 😉


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