reblogged psychology and lifestyle post
I saw this blog post and it was so interesting and appropriate that I thought I would share it with you.
In the past I have been a toxic person, from time to time. That was not my conscious choice, it was the result of all the shit my principal carers put into my head when I was a young child. I have now left those toxic behaviours behind me.
I know some toxic people, and I now know that their toxic behaviours are not their fault – their being toxic is the direct result of all the shit their principal carers put into their heads while they were young and vulnerable children.
However, if those toxic people do not consciously choose to change their toxicity for the better, then I will just leave them behind me.
I find women who go into bars alone quite toxic